
“Goodbye to Grief”
I had to say good-bye to the grief of losing you—
not because I stopped missing your name
in the quiet hour,
not because my hands forgot the weight
of holding memory.
But I grew tired of letting sorrow
build its house inside my chest,
each sigh a window,
each tear a door
left open to the wind.
I told the ache: you may rest now.
You’ve sung your hymn in every season.
You’ve painted loss in shades
that even morning couldn’t hide.
But love—
love deserves more than mourning.
So I kept the part of you
that still blooms in laughter,
the flicker of your smile
in ordinary things—
a scent, a song,
the way light leans into dusk.
Grief, I release you,
not to forget,
but to remember more gently.
You are not gone—
you are changed.
And so am I.
Thank-you for reading.
Remember there are many paths back to God.
Follow your own path,
Brenda Marie
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And there is always the knowing that at the end of it all like me and my late husband we will be together in eternity. Just a hard road until we get there.
So true!
Beautiful, Brenda. Especially,
“You are not gone—
you are changed.
And so am I.”